In this article i will give a step by step process of what you can expect and work towards once you have achieved the first step.
STEP ONE - Changed Thinking leads to Changed Beliefs
Refer to previous article on this subject.
STEP TWO - Charged Beliefs leads to Changed Expectations
Upon development of clear vision and understanding what your purpose is, what you are about - this will help you to shift your expectations. What you expect in life will be all about what you want to archieve - and a clear roadmap will help you towards those expectations. You need to also have spiritual connectedness - your belief in the superiority of God in your life will help shape your vision and expectations.
STEP THREE - Changed Expectations leads to Changed Attitudes
Your attitudes define your self-predisposition and life focus. It merely denotes your habit of attention. Consistent application of attitude creates a basis of the content of your character.
Development of a good attitude will take the following critical steps:
- Identification of what you need to change about yourself
- Identification of what right thinking would be that would give a good emotional habit.
- Associate with people who are positive
- Intend to create affirmations and plans that will keep you happy/positive about self and life in general
STEP FOUR - Changed Attitudes leads to Changed Actions
Once your attitude start changing, simultaneously your actions will start changing too. The actions we portray are the exhibit of what fruit we are able to produce. These actions are also a reflection of our thinking and state of mind.
STEP FIVE - Changed Actions leads to Changed Habits
Since actions are the things we practically do, when we do these repeatedly they become habits. Obviously when we do things we behave - that means these become natural behaviours. That is why for some people punctuality is a habit - they just cant be late for any meeting. They value time and it comes naturally because of practise. Others do not struggle to forgive - it comes naturally for them to forgive because they have practised it.
STEP SIX - Changed Habits leads to Creation of New Character
Remember that your character cannot be indicative of only one observable behavior aspect - but is a combination of a lot of actions and activities with a historical background that have a potential to determine future actions. Consistent repetition of habits will influence your sub-conscious mind such that the habit comes naturally. Remember - all habits are learned - so we can plan and purpose to learn new good habits that enable us to flourish and this we can do by unlearning bad habits that constrain us.
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